Emotional Baggage Doesn’t Pack Itself — Let’s Unpack It Together.
Why this service exists:
Before you were a couple, you were individuals. With histories. Hurts. Failures. Disappointments. Some of those moments changed how you love, how you trust, and how you protect yourself emotionally. AYAKO’s Unresolved Issues Assessment is a mirror that reflects what hasn’t healed — not to shame, but to awaken.
What makes this assessment unique:
It doesn’t just ask what happened — it uncovers how what happened continues to echo into today. We provide emotional categories that include:
Emotional debris (shame, insecurity, jealousy, guilt, rejection)
Past trauma (abuse, assault, loss, violence)
Societal and cultural wounds (discrimination, poverty, gender expectations)
You’ll Discover:
The ways you’ve developed unhealthy self-soothing mechanisms (addiction, silence, avoidance)
Where your pain is bleeding into your relationship
If you’re emotionally projecting past wounds onto your partner
How trauma might cause you to shut down or lash out
Why It Matters in the Real World:
You can be mad at your partner for what someone else did to you years ago — and not even realize it. This service helps remove invisible chains so you both can love more freely.