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   AYAKO is an evaluation service rooted in a fusion of the ethos of a West African traditional marriage, systems engineering, and psychology. In essence this integration creates a powerful approach to fostering healthy and successful marriages by integrating the problem solving of systems engineering, the individual and relational insights of psychology, and the rich cultural wisdom of West African traditions. By blending these fields a matrix framework is created that addresses not only the individual psychological needs of partners but also the systemic dynamics of the relationship within the context of family culture and community.

  Developed by Dr. Alabi Adesina (EDDCP), an Education and Counseling Psychologist, AYAKO offers structured insights into the current state of a marital union, helping COUPLES identify strengths and challenges using a six-function framework.

The goal is not to judge, but to guide — offering a mirror to your relationship through a professional, confidential, and culturally aware process.

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Our Mission

To empower couples with psychological insight that strengthens the foundation of marriage through scientifically backed, culturally sensitive assessments.
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Our Vision

A world where couples understand each other better, build lasting bonds, and thrive through intentional self-reflection and emotional intelligence.
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Core Values

Confidentiality – Your privacy is paramount. No names are collected.Empathy – Every relationship is unique and worthy of understanding.Scientific Integrity – All assessments are rooted in validated research.Cultural Sensitivity – We consider collectivist and individualist values.Accessibility – Complete your assessment anytime, anywhere.

Relationship Assessment in Africa

Dr. Alabi Adesina (EDDCP) is an Education and Counseling Psychologist with a passion for helping couples better understand the emotional and psychological dynamics of their marriage. Through years of academic research and practical experience, he developed the AYAKO Matrix — a systems-based tool grounded in human values and psychological science.

With deep insight into African cultural contexts, faith-based dynamics, and emotional wellness, Dr. Adesina brings clarity, empathy, and professionalism to every assessment. Whether you’re seeking to address communication issues, uncover unresolved emotional blocks, or simply evaluate your relationship’s current state — you’ll be guided with compassion, expertise, and discretion.

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We Provide Modern Relationship Insight

Our approach blends psychological science with cultural awareness to help couples understand and improve their union. No therapy sessions — just a quick, research-based assessment designed for clarity, growth, and connection.

Happy Clients
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The unresolved issues section described me better than any therapist ever has. I realized how past pain was affecting my current reactions. This changed everything.

Fatima B., Jos

CEO, Dentist

AYAKO helped us pinpoint why our arguments never really got resolved. The conflict section was spot on — we were always competing, never collaborating. Now we’re more aware of how we communicate

Ada & Michael, Abuja

Senior Manager

I did this alone at first, just to see. I was so impressed I convinced my husband to do it too. Our combined report helped us have our first honest conversation in years.

Ezinne O., Asaba

Single Mother