Disagree Without Destroying the Relationship
Why this service exists:
Conflict isn’t a threat — it’s a form of emotional friction that reveals what matters most to each person. Unfortunately, most couples don’t fight about the issue — they fight about how the issue is being handled. This assessment provides clarity on each partner’s conflict handling style, helping both parties move from opposition to collaboration.
What makes this assessment unique:
We apply The Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI) framework in a culturally adapted way, mapping your behavior into five distinct modes — and showing how those modes either build or break the relationship in your specific context.
You’ll Learn:
What it takes to argue without contempt and disagree with dignity
Why some conflicts escalate while others are avoided
The subconscious role power, control, or emotional retreat plays
Which partner is likely to shut down or dominate — and why
How unresolved tension shows up in passive aggression or emotional silence
Real-World Application:
- Couples transitioning through financial hardship, family interference, or parenting stress
- Cross-cultural or interfaith partners dealing with value conflicts
- Couples healing from betrayal, dishonesty, or trust issues
This service transforms conflict from something feared into something functional.